Following on from the release of our 2019 report, Strong in Southwark, we will be attending Southwark Council’s Overview and Scrutiny Panel online on 22nd July at 6.30pm to present the findings of the report. The consultation was community-led by Southwark LGBT Network in partnership with Healthwatch Southwark. This meeting will allow us to put forward concerns people from the community have raised to key individuals within the Council, and share your lived experiences on a senior platform. We’d love for as many of you to attend as possible.
To attend the online event please click here – Wednesday 22nd July, 6.30pm
We are very excited to announce a new series of online programming taking place from 27th-31st July. CHATEAU ONLINE will include events, workshops, live sessions and parties to celebrate queer culture and support the LGBTQ+ community in SE London. The events are being organised by the wonderful team at The Chateau, and supported by Southwark LGBT Network.
Tickets for all events are Free or Pay What You Can/Donation, with all proceeds going to METRO Charity and UK QTIBIPOC Hardship Fund. Event and booking details are below, or all events can also be accessed through The Chateau’s Outsavvy page here: https://www.outsavvy.com/organiser/the-chateau
31/07 – LET’S HAVE A KIKI #TheParty – with KARIM and Jay Jay Revlon 9pm – 12am on Zoom (facebook) (book tickets)
From The Chateau: “We’ve assembled a group of people we love and respect to bring YOU one week of shimmering queer happenings right to your living room, all in aid of two incredible causes – METRO Charity and UK QTIBIPOC Hardship Fund. The Chateau stands in vocal solidarity BLACK LIVES MATTER and with the Black queer and trans community, in fighting the systemic racism that plagues our society. These events will centre Black and POC artists from The Chateau community, who we celebrate this month and always.”
METRO Charity METRO provides health, community and youth services across London and the South East for anyone experiencing issues around sexuality, gender, equality, diversity or identity. Find out more info here: https://metrocharity.org.uk/
UK QTIBIPOC Hardship Fund This emergency relief and hardship fund has been set up to provide short term support to Queer, Trans and Intersex, Black, Indigenous, People of Color (QTIBIPOC) currently living in the UK who are affected by the outbreak and ongoing shutdown caused by Covid-19. It has been set up to support those who are immunocompromised, chronically ill, asthmatic, in quarantine or elderly as well as those in precarious and threatening financial situations due to the official lockdown imposed in the UK on March 23rd, 2020 Find out more info here: https://uk.gofundme.com/f/nepjh-uk-qtibipoc-emergency-relief-amp-hardship-fund
We sadly heard recently of the passing of Gaby Charing. Gaby was one of the founders of Southwark LGBT Network in 2002 and she and her partner Liz have been instrumental in the success of the Network as well as the Southwark LGBT Forum ever since, and have supported the local LGBTQ+ community in so many ways. When I first found out about the Southwark LGBT Network, its history and the work of Gaby and Liz, I immediately wanted to take part. Gaby provided me with support in ways I didn’t expect, for which I will always be grateful. As many others will describe, she was warm, empathetic and committed to the needs of her community. The amount of work she did for the Network is staggering. My thoughts are with Liz at this time. I hope that we’re able to continue to do work that reflects their legacy. Many people have sent their thoughts to remember Gaby and her wonderful life, which we put below as a tribute.
Nathan Lewis – Chair, Southwark LGBT Network
Gaby worked very hard for the health, wellbeing and equality of local people, even when unwell herself. Her 2018 Southwark Stars award, ‘Outstanding Contribution to Southwark’, was testament to the impact she had in many spheres. Gaby provided wise, kind support to the Healthwatch team in her role on our Advisory Group. We enjoyed her company and thought-provoking reflections, and strongly admired her commitment to justice and speaking out for what is right. Our condolences and thoughts are with her partner Liz, and all her family and friends. – From the Healthwatch Southwark and Community Southwark teams.
Gaby was chair of the LGBT Network at the time when there was a Southwark version of Queer Question Time; about ten years ago, and which made the atrium of the council building in Tooley Street into a BBC studio, but far better, for one evening a year. One year there was a terrible mix up of dates. Gaby stepped forward, talked to everyone, unwove the knotted and confusing way that the mistake had become baked in, and she took the time to understand the precise details of who said what, when and how to whom, and then explained it to everyone so that we could calmly and happily get back to work. Lots of words are written about “leadership”. Gently unweaving problems and explaining them in careful detail, that is what leaders do. Gaby was always kind and clever and a leader and I will miss talking to her too; she was always a friend.” – Kevin Dykes (Communities Division, Southwark Council)
I was very grateful on two counts that she set up the fund to enable people to put on events for LGBT History Month. As the co-founder of the month it was great to see the spirit of the month which was enabling grass-roots events being supported and what’s more that volunteers got paid for the work they were doing. It was especially meaningful to me as I was a Southwark resident when I launched the month and the first launch was in Southwark at the Tate Modern so Southwark was a crucial place for LGBT History Month which is now a national and international event. In solidarity, sue. – Sue Sanders (Professor Emeritus Harvey Milk Institute, Chair of Schools Out UK, founder of LGBT History Month, and former Chair of Southwark LGBT Forum)
I remember fondly the regular meetings that Gaby and myself had with various organisations when we were attempting to find a possible home for the Southwark LGBT work outside of the local authority. Gaby was incredibly supportive to the LGBT Community Development role and myself personally. – Dax Ashworth (LGBT Community Development Worker, Southwark Council 2004-2012)
My condolences to you Liz. I knew and worked with Gaby through Southwark’s LGBT Forum and Network. She was a strong passionate voice for equality and social justice. Her memory will live on 🏳️🌈 – Cllr David Noakes
So sorry to hear this sad news Liz. Gaby was a stalwart champion of all that we were trying to do in Southwark, and I was always grateful for her love and support. Thoughts with you today and always. – Peter John (Leader of Southwark Council)
Oh Liz – I know this wasn’t unexpected but my thoughts are with you. Have been thinking about you both a lot & will really miss Gaby’s kindness, insight & lust for life. And, of course, her Twitter rants! – David Cheesman
The world has become more monochrome with the loss of our wonderfully feisty Gaby. She was an inspiration. Take care Liz and be gentle with yourself. x – Rosalind Luff
Heartbroken to read of the passing of one of my dearest friends @GCharing wishing you safe travels in your travels across the cosmos 💔 – Diana Taylor
Very very sorry to hear this. She was a fantastic contributor to our patient group in SEL. Fiercely independent and intelligent. My condolences. – Mark Easton
Such sad news. Gaby was a wonderful woman, a force of nature. I had the pleasure of meeting her through work Kings College NHS where she was a patient and also gave a moving and impactful patient story at our Board of Directors. Sorely missed already St Christopher’s Hospice – Jessica Bush
RIP Gaby. She was a brilliant patient and public rep when I worked for the NHS in South East London. Smart, empathetic and a great campaigner. Very sorry to hear this news. – Rory Hegarty
I’m so very sorry for your profound loss Liz – and I know all from METRO Charity are sending their love to you right now. – Dr Greg Ussher, METRO Charity
So sorry to hear this. She was such a kind woman x – Veronica McKenzie
Oh dear I am very sorry to hear this and sending Liz much warmth, strengthen and love Xx – Pearl Henry
Gaby’s encouragement and enthusiasm a decade ago played a hugely important role in me establishing Lgbtq radio show Out in South London on Resonance FM. In 2016, this became Radio Diva and was so popular it almost broke Resonance’s audience monitoring software. Gaby came along to several of my live comedy and theatre shows, some of which were supported with small grants from the Network. She and Liz were always a lovely presence in the audience. Their support was instrumental in me continuing to follow my dreams. I also visited their house on a couple of occasions and received a wonderful welcome there. Gaby will be sorely missed by the lgbtq community in Southwark who loved her, and by many beyond. – Rosie Wilby
At the Gay Liberation Front in December 1971 I was asked to greet a ‘new sister’ I talked to Gaby and we ended up going to the pub with Michael Brown. She lived in Tuffnell Park and I in Highgate so I offered her a lift home. Near there we talked about school. Suddenly she said ‘you’re little Nettie Pollard’. She was in 6th form I in first. She invited me to dinner twice. On the second occasion she gave me lots of Teacher’s whisky and asked me to stay the night. I said ‘but I hardly know you’. She replied ‘nonsense we were at school together’. I stayed. – Nettie Pollard
I met Gaby first a very long time ago in the heady days of early ‘Gay’ Liberation. In June 1972 a group of ‘Radical Femmes’ – all involved with the GLF office collective moved into a house in Athlone Road, next door to the school (Tulse Hill Comprehensive) that I was attending as a 16 year old. Knowing them from the GLF office I was a constant visitor. They got hassle from the schoolkids, the school itself, local residents and the local police school. After bricks through windows, and attacks on the street, we handed out leaflets, had demos outside, and inside the school. Under siege in that little house many others from GLF came to spend time at the house and support the ‘beleaguered’ queens. Gaby was one of the (very few) Lesbians who came and stood with us. I remember her standing outside the house remonstrating with the police, and others, that they were not doing their job (protecting us), and asserting that we had a perfect right to be there – impassioned, but polite, assertive and acerbic toward our tormentors. She left a lasting impression on me then. Fast forward many years and I got to know her again through Liz … occasional but delightful parties at their house. And then for over a decade firm Facebook friends – delightful exchanges laced with her wit and general smartness; she always had something useful and pertinent to say – and said it so well. We last met as part of her ‘farewell tour’ when her and Liz came to Amsterdam (where I live mostly) in 2018; a delightful ‘high tea’ and stroll through the nether regions of the city. All in all I feel so enriched by knowing her, on and off, for nearly 50 years – am saddened by her passing – and will be thinking of her often I am sure in years to come, wondering ‘what would have Gaby said about this or that’ – and does my reaction have the same ‘fearlessness’ tempered by intelligent analysis and refusal to settle for ‘second- best’ . Goodbye Gaby and thanks for the inspiration. – Julian Hows
Gaby was one of the most nicest people I knew, and hearing of her passing truly saddened me. I first got to know Gaby through the LGBT forum, which Dax chaired. From then on I would frequently see her at different events, along with Peter Vittles and Justin Varney. She would always come and say hi and chat. It was always lovely to see her, and spend time chatting to her. She loved what she did and was constantly busy with different projects and events. I fondly remember being invited to dinner at her flat along with her Partner Liz. She truly loved her very much, as did she. My thoughts are with her and all of the family. She has made a lasting mark on everybody that knew her. She put so much into the LGBT and the help to move it forward. We all owe her so much. May she rest in eternal peace, in the arms of God with the Angels in Heaven. – Carol Vincent
In the 1990s I was instrumental in setting up the multi-agency forum in Southwark which, at that time, specifically addressed homophobic crime in our borough. A few years later I was thrilled when Gaby and Liz took over the forum which by then had evolved into Southwark’s LGBT Network and widened its remit. I always found Gaby to be a warm, friendly and supportive member of the community. The demands of my other voluntary commitments in the borough eventually took me away from the Network but with Gaby at the helm I knew it was in safe hands. I am only sorry that our paths did not cross more often. – Stephen Bourne (Founder of Southwark LGBT Forum)
I have just heard the sad news about Gaby and wanted to pass on my condolences. I knew Gaby in a number of roles: Healthwatch rep, sitting on CCG groups and as chair of the LGBT Forum. One of the things that struck me about Gaby was her integrity, her way of saying it as it was, her strength of character and her sense of humour. – Rosemary Watts (Head of Membership, Engagement and Equalities, NHS South East London CCG)
“In the end, it’s people who make a difference to one’s life.” Murmurations Journal remember a paper written by Gaby and Liz on living with dying and bereavement. And Gaby did make a difference – Karen Partridge
I’m saddened to hear this. A warrior of substance has departed. Please accept my sincerest heartfelt condolences. – Emi Kayserilioglu
I have known Gaby and Liz over the last few years and their kind advice and support has been invaluable in helping us to continue the Network based on their powerful legacy in the local community. I learned a lot from Gaby during our conversations, which I will not forget. She and Liz have also enabled us to create an archive for the local LGBTQ+ community of their work, which will become a key community resource for the future. Rest in power Gaby, and thank you. – Chris Scales (Secretary, Southwark LGBT Network)
Last year Southwark LGBT Network partnered with Healthwatch Southwark to undertake a new survey for the LGBTQ+ community in the borough, building on previous surveys the Network has undertaken since 2002. The process enabled us to reach out to local residents and seldom-heard communities in order to develop a better understanding of local health and social care needs.
On 27th June 2019 at LSBU we launched the resulting report, the Southwark LGBTQ+ Community Consultation 2018-19. The report and summary findings are attached here for all to consult and use, so please take a look. We are also extremely grateful to all the panellists who took part in the launch event, including representatives from Southwark Council, Pride in Practice, METRO Charity, South London & Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust, BlackOut UK, ParaPride, Rewrite, and NAZ Project London.
Southwark LGBT Network and Healthwatch Southwark will be launching their new report this month, ‘Strong In Southwark: The Experience of Southwark’s LGBTQ+ Communities‘.
We are inviting local residents, local government, health professionals, and influencers to look into how health and social care services and the Voluntary and Community Sector (VCS) can work together to provide a stronger, more inclusive landscape for the LGBTQ+ community in Southwark.
The findings from this social action LGBTQ+ survey, which has been led by local residents from its inception running from July – November 2018, showed a mixed outlook on life experiences in Southwark. Some key statistics include:
Over 70% felt that mainstream services weren’t inclusive of LGBTQ+ clients;
58 % of respondents believe that there is no sense of LGBTQ+ community in Southwark, leading to concerns surrounding safety; and
42% of respondents had had a mental health illness within the past two years.
Change is crucial.
This launch event will give you the unique opportunity to:
Delve into the rich data on LGBTQ+ needs in Southwark;
Network with organisations that support LGBTQ+ needs;
Help us identity gaps in our research;
Have real open conversations with change makers; and
Be part of a solution-focused approach to issues of concern that are raised.
Guest Speakers and Panellists include:
Clllr Victor Chamberlain – Borough and Bankside
Jess Leach- Southwark Council
Dr David Hambrook- South London and Maudsley Trust
Rob Berkeley – Blackout UK
Susan Hailes- The Metro Charity
Carlos Corredor- The NAZ Project London
Daniel Lul- ParaPride
Jacob Bayliss – Pride in Practice
This event is being supported by Southwark Council, the VCS and a number of health charities and other organisations across the borough.
We need as many Southwark LGBTQ+ residents and Allies, to share their thoughts, experiences and feedback on the work we’ve been doing. This will help us to gain further intelligence to help make Southwark a better place to live in.
We especially want to hear from other groups supporting:
Please do share details of this event with others who you think may be interested in attending.
This weekend the Southwark LGBTQ Youth Summit will bring young LGBTQ people (aged 13-25) together to learn about local opportunities and services, socialise and have fun. There will be workshops, trans space, stalls, silent disco, photo booth and much more. Please see the flyer attached for details.
Saturday 23rd Feb, 2-6pm at the Salmon Youth Centre in Bermondsey, 43 Old Jamaica Rd, London SE16 4TE. Any questions email email@example.com
The network will be holding a members meeting soon in early March which will be communicated to members by email. If you need to be added to the mailing list please use the form on the Newsletter page. There will also be a newsletter sent out during February so if you have any updates to share please send them through.
Southwark LGBT Network aims to build and strengthen LGBTQ+ communities in the borough to improve the quality of life of those who live, work, study or socialise here and reduce vulnerability to hate crime, harassment and discrimination.